were was I? oh, yeah.
you can ether take it two ways.
you could etherstop loving altogether and become a mean cruel thing(beleive me it doesn't work very well.)
or, oh, wait. I forgot what I was going to say.
you could take the pain and just keep going with life. realizing that he has a plan. and it can be very painful.
or.
some times he lets sertan people come into our live but find the need to take them out again because we have let them become more emportant thanour families or even God. and we have to learn it again and again sometimes.
or.
thats just the way life goes.